Do you ever wonder why some people seem to effortlessly attract (and keep) money while others struggle with it?
One of the things I have witnessed as a financial coach who has worked with people of all income levels is that people who have a higher net worth demonstrate an attitude toward money and personal value that is different from those who struggle with having enough.
Even high income earners can struggle with not having enough if they cannot energetically hang on to what they earn.
The connection between self-worth and net-worth is truly fascinating to me. It’s one of the things I focus on in working with coaching clients. The increase in net-worth seems to inevitably follow the increase of self-worth.
Here are three simple ways to easily increase your sense of self-worth and prosperity in your life.
Tip #1: Appreciation and gratitude
What you put your attention on grows. When you look at this from the perspective of the Law of Attraction (the principle of like attracts like) in my experience nothing increases your energetic vibration more quickly than appreciation and gratitude. If you are in the energy of appreciation and gratitude it is impossible to experience fear and doubt.
I love starting off my day by cultivating a deep sense of what I’m thankful for in my life. It sets the tone for a day filled with beauty, ease and flow. All of which are essential to attracting more wealth.
Tip #2: Self-love
In money coaching, we often see a correlation between self-worth and net-worth. Women who struggle with self-doubt and feelings of low self-worth are able to turn their money situation around just by simply increasing their self-image and lovingly engaging in self-care.
Often times, self-love begins with forgiveness of self, followed by self-appreciation.
Journal exercise: In exploration of your relationship with yourself, get curious about how you value yourself, and how you view your value in this world. Ask yourself these questions and journal on what comes up.
- What do you need to forgive yourself for?
- Where are you holding back forgiving others who have hurt you?
- What do you appreciate and value about yourself?
Tip #3 Embrace what money does for you
I’m not asking you to make money the number one priority of your life. I’m simply suggesting that you respect the role money plays in your life. When you think about what money does for you, it makes sense that you would naturally have an appreciation for money.
I’ve had lots of money and I’ve had periods in my life of not having enough money. And I can tell you, life is a lot easier and much more fun with money. Embracing money simply means that you respect and appreciate it, which attracts prosperity – having more than enough.
This simple shift in your mindset causes a shift in your energetic vibration around money. This shift actually makes room for more money, which means it starts showing up in your life, your bank account and your net-worth.
I invite you to try on the perspective of consciously inviting money to show up for you by intentionally increasing your appreciation for money. I don’t mean that you put money before God and people.
I’m simply suggesting that you give money respect and appreciation. Do this and watch how your finances start to flow in the direction of more wealth and prosperity.
Here’s to allowing more money in your life!
Hello, I’m Patti. I’m an award-winning, certified life & money coach and retirement planner. I’ve worked with hundreds of women, school teachers, and their families to create a big-picture plan for their money and secure retirement. As a result, I noticed how women do money differently than men. Yet, the unique (emotional) needs of women have not been well served by the financial services industry. Which is why I’m super passionate about this work. I’m on a mission to teach women how to heal their relationship with money, take charge of their future and create a life they truly love.